It seems that any strategy that has ANY chance of succeeding from the perspective of the HD involves the plan to walk away. You can not make any threats of leaving unless you are prepared to leave, you can not back down. Unfortunately, my christian principals make it very hard to walk away, and so do my children. Unfortunately, many nights I just think to myself that I am sacrificing my entire life in order to protect my children from a broken home. I just wish there were a strategy that would work for the christian guy like me.
