I'm not sure that we fit into this thread, although we certainly have at different times of our married life. When first married, H's libido was higher than mine and I was completely waited on and doted on. I did NOTHING and was a complete Taker. Then things started to shift subtly and I honestly don't remember which was first...a shift in sex drive or a shift in Giving/Taking. My drive was never low; his was just higher than mine for a brief time.
Now I would classify us as equally giving and taking. We just give in different ways to each other and take in different ways. We both do lots of Acts of Service for the other, so that is us giving and taking, but I am the Giver and Planner of Quality time and he is the taker. We both give in the Physical affection area but he is the hugger and pecker and I am the ML'er.
I think there are definitely givers and takers in relationships but I don't know how closely it parallels the HD/LD lines. Just my feedback for your informal survey, newlywed!
