I have the Boundaries book on hold at my library. I will call my counselor today or tomorrow to set up an appointment.
You know, last night, when I wanted to further engage my wife in the "you don't take compliments well" argument, and held back, I actually visualized all of you helpful folks sitting around a table, shaking your heads, and one of you saying, "just wait till tomorrow morning and vent with us." I think it was HP that said that, because she was wearing a grey sweatshirt that said, "Goodyear" on it.
