Corri said: -------------- Ah. I see. Eliminates damaage and potentially builds trust just through repetition and reinforcement. There really isn't anything else he can do....
...except buy the Boundaries book and go see a shrink to help him vent HIS frustration and get professional help on forming a game plan. --------------
You are right, the book and help are a good idea. I do think that HD can get the ball rolling if he can distance himself from his hurts and pain long enough for his wife to get in the act.
It is very easy (guilty person speaking here) to build your walls so high that no one can climb them in order to help you out...
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
