Nop: Jealous of me? I don't know why she would be jealous of me. Why do you think she's jealous? No, I haven't been boinking my ex, or anyone else for that matter. Distrust? Yes, she says that she lost trust in me because I kept our financial situation from her back when I was in charge of the bills and thought I could get us back on track before she found out we were in trouble. I know I should have told her, but I wasn't thinking right. Now, she handles all the finances. She also points to my failure to consider her feelings about the move from KC to acreage outside the greater KC area as a major trust issue. I distrust her because she keeps on calling it "her" bed and bedroom when the going gets rough, and, more recently, her threat to call 911 and say I was abusing her. Yeah, we have some trust problems.
Dead elephant? Gee, I hope not, as she truly loves elephants. Other than what I've set forth above, I really don't think I'm keeping anything from you.
Why does she seem to think sex is the only word I understand? I don't know, maybe because deep down (or not so deep down) she feels she has failed as a wife in that department, which she knows is significant to me, and because she feels she needs to be beyond reproach in every area of her life. Just a guess.
