Okay, who gave this thread 5 stars? I'm guessing Mojo.
I don't think I'll be moving to the basement right away but I'm thinking what I will do is read the Boundaries book, make an appointment for ME to see my therapist who I haven't seen in years, and maybe tell W that I don't think she needs to be deciding unilaterally to end our sex life.
I just remembered that W, DD3 and I are going to HP's backyard for the weekend to visit some friends. 4.5 hours each way. Either there will be a big elephant in the car to ignore, or it will be an interesting ride. Either way, I'll report back.
