Unless there is some sort of freaky consciousness merging happening on this BB, I believe that I am the one who wrote what you quoted. Now that you know that the Mistress of WishyWashyOverAnalyzationNewTheoryEveryday was responsible for it, feel free to not take it too seriously.
If you go with Corri's suggestion to move to the basement, I think you should order the Farrah poster on E-bay instead of the BlackLight ones I suggested previously.
My advice for the day based on my own sich is it's best to take a stand based on integrity even if your relationship doesn't improve because at least you'll feel better about yourself and the world. There's nothing wrong with telling your W "I'm the kind of person who will always be unhappy in a marriage in which I am only getting laid twice a year.". Of course, don't say it if it isn't true, but I think it must be true based on what you've posted. Numb isn't happy. I know because I've tried.
P.S.
You really should read "The Corrections" by Franzen. One of the main characters has a wife who won't sleep with him until he improves his behavior which she blames on depression. The whole novel revolves around some HD/LD relationships. It's not at all biased. You will laugh at your own reflection in some of the HD behavior and it casts a positive light on some LD behavior. Actually I think everybody on this board should read this novel. Actually I think everybody everywhere should read this novel because it is the perfect endpiece to 20th century literature given that Samuel Butler's "The Way of All Flesh" was the beginning. I want everybody to read "The Way of All Flesh" too. Your book reports are due by the end of October. Get crackin'.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
