A 180? Or are you just feeling like you can't win so you're "giving in"? I feel the same many times, sometimes it's just not worth the effort. You could take her statements reverse it on her..."she should love you for the HD person that you are", "if you like sex then she should accept that", blah blah blah. It's all a cop out, something to push you off your track. Maybe you've hit a nerve recently.
Corri's response says it all (as usual) she's set her boundry now you've got to set yours. On the selfish side this is making me evaluate my own boundry setting, and I realize...I suck at it. I'm off to Amazon to get that book Corri was talking about.
Best of luck, remember you're not alone...it just seems like it sometimes.
