HD... I was actually looking to you today for a punny post of sorts, but I received something more instead. I realized I am toning myself down as an act of compromise and acceptance of my H and where he is at. Thank you for the insight. Just a note: if you are going to accept her, just try to make sure you aren't doing it in a begrudging manner; IOW, try to keep appreciation in the picture. Glad you can vent here about how the plan is working out, and whether it becomes time to do that line in the sand stuff again. Hugggs, IHJ
