Corri said:
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...... All I have to do is show up.......
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This is good.

Do expect him to get a bit miffed because his first misperception is going to be that you are failing to be a good wife. After he learns that it is not true, he will probably try to punish you in the bedroom (sexually) by withholding :-)

At some point in time, he will ask you, in earnest, and with a heart ready to understand, just what the hell is going on. Have a nice answer prepared. Keep it short and simple so he can understand it through his frustration.

I don't think it is going to take very long for him to wake up.

You are an excellent wife, Corri.

-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.