SM...that was a good analogy. I've felt like my W's employee before. Or her child. Or her slave (although, unfortunately, not her sex slave). I threw a peasant's revolt about 6 months ago and got out of washing her clothes, cooking dinner every night, and making her coffee on weekends. Me and myself intend to celebrate this day annually, similar to Bastille Day. Not sure what to call it yet.

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