Welp, I couldn't 'fix' this weekend, for the plan I had to 'fix' it fell through. Meaning, the spa I chose was booked. I told H. He said, "well, now what?" And I said, with complete honesty, "I don't know." And I LET IT GO. That, in and of itself, is miraculous.
So, I suppose H got with Male Friend and they decided on a resort about two hours away from us, lined up golf for themselves and two mAssages for me and my Girl Friend.
All I have to do is show up.
In a slightly smaller event, H leaves an insurance bill on the counter one morning. He pays the bills. I do not. So I supposed it was out for a reason. It was. He came home that night and said, "Why didn't you pay this?" And I said, "I didn't know you wanted me to. All you had to do was ask, I would have been happy to help." He said, "well, my leaving it there meant I wanted you to pay it." And I said, "Okay. That's not what I got out of it." And I let it go AGAIN.
So the next day, H asks me to call said insurance company to see if they could get us a different quote for coverage. "You just call them and ask them x, y, z about this and they'll give you numbers."
And I said, "I'm sorry honey, that isn't anything I want to do." Him, shocked, "Why not?" Me: "Because I can call and do that, and I'll get numbers, but then you will endlessly question me about it, and eventually ask me why I didn't do x, y, z, and then you'll have me call again... So... since you obviously are quite clear in what you want, you have stated yourself that this is in fact simple and does not take much time, I think it would be best if you do this yourself."
