I'll agree that at least some of us women do expect you guys to be mind readers too much of the time . Maybe it's the whole 'prince on a white horse riding in to save the day' thing we're fed, who knows.

I know there were a couple of times when H did ask me to tell him what to do, and when I did, he would say he was too busy, or find another reason why he couldn't.

Then there was the whole, 'I messed this up, so I can't do it again', 'Every time I do this it just gets messed up again' or in our case 'I don't agree with the way you do it, and it will take me too much time to arrange things the way I like it so that I can do it'...it just got easier for me to just do everything.