I agree with Heapmom...we're going to need a bit more of the history of you two before we can really help.
One thing I do want to ask is this...how much time does she make for you? Is she always busy with kids, work, house chores, errands etc? If so, it's always possible that her mind is always occupied with the things she feels she HAS to do, so there's something constantly on her mind (like her list of things to do.)
Just curious here...do you help out much with the house/kids/chores etc.? Don't get me wrong here...I'm not jumping to the conclusion that you're a deadbeat or anything like that I've seen it happen with my own eyes (and been guilty of this myself) where women sometimes take on the role of "Super Woman" by unwittingly/unknowingly pushing their spouse away by constantly occupying themselves with household/family chores. Sometimes when they do this they don't even realize their husband is very willing to help out...but for some reason they don't let them. Does that make any sense to you?
Just some food for thought :-)
GEL
Yeah sounds like a bunch of years in my married life.
I've seen it happen with my own eyes (and been guilty of this myself) where women sometimes take on the role of "Super Woman" by unwittingly/unknowingly pushing their spouse away by constantly occupying themselves with household/family chores. Sometimes when they do this they don't even realize their husband is very willing to help out...but for some reason they don't let them. Does that make any sense to you?
