CelibateDad, Good to hear from you again! It's been a while - shame your still celibate though.
DBR, Your story is near identical to most of us HD (High Desire) husbands with LD (Low Desire) or ND (No Desire) wives. Just like all of us, you are facing a long journey where it is you that must change your ways (even though you think you are perfect) before she will follow you and then there is no guarantee she will ever meet your needs and expectations. Your best start is to read as many of the threads as you can on this board and read Michele's book "The Sex Starved Marriage" and after that read "Passionate Marriage" by David Schnarch. This will give you some tools to work with. Good Luck and welcome. SD
