I am hearing you say, she considers "sex is for making babies" and you seem to have a houseful. Perhaps she believes just that. Is she avoiding sex for concern about pregnancy?? Even the thought of the amount of work involved with a pregnancy and child rearing might be enough for her (anyone) to avoid sex. How about the idea of a recreational activity, not just to procreate. I hope my LD wife would be more into the fun part of sex, after my vasectomy, but it was just another disappointment.
!0 months celibate, still think it it easier this way.
