First thanks for you guys replying...Here is some background info for you, we are married for 5 yrs have a 3 yr old and 15 month old twin boys. I am home all day with the kids while she is a work, while im home I clean, do was mow the lawn and the standard kids stuff dress feed play. Im sorry but what does this mean "Also, has your W been LD from the begining, or have things 'cooled off' at some point?" im mean the LD part. But when we want to try for kids sex was ok, and she still jokes or so I believe it is a joke that sex is for procreation only. That does not make me happy. As for time that she has for me is just always doing things for the house and the kids, we very rarely have juast our time. But an example is that even if I try to kiss her she give a friendly kiss not an I Love You kiss (in my mind). I know she does not like to talk about sex, I believe that she finds touching me a turn off. I have suggested asking her OB about the pill avamil just as an option, her response was "Im not taking Viagra". so hopefully this gives you some info, please let me know what else you want to know.
