The best I can tell you is that I have went the path of asking all the time to not asking at all, neither work that well. We do work opposite shifts and she works home sometimes and other than that weekends only. At this point I dont know what if anything will work, I have suggested that she speaks to her gyno. (Well See) She feels that that is all I want her for, but I can tell you that is not the case, I LOVE HER with all my heart. But as I said before it hurts being rejected. I will give her some credit that she trys sometimes. I have tried everything, but she does not even like me just doing stuff to her, Let me ask you all a question, (Male & Female Answers Please)If you are not into it but the person that you love comes over to you and starts kissing you and touching you does that make you get in to it? I will do anything she asks, but the PROBLEM is she never asks. She has told me that she could do with out it. I feel that she does not even want to touch me. Also when I said I do anything for her, I try to please her with nothing in return but she also believes that there is something behind everything I do. I do just like doing stuff for her that does make me feal good too. I do admit I do try alot but I love being with her. If there is anything else that you had in mind please let me know...