Socal, How do you know she is not desiring you when she makes the invitations?
Maybe that is her way of showing it; some women just don't feel comfortable showing outright desire so they make it out to be that they are doing you a favor..or 'allowing' you access to them, when really they are just wanting their husbands at that moment.
What if you operated from the premise that THIS is what's going on, instead of her doing you a favor?
Or is it her behavior once things have started that gives you the impression that you are being serviced rather than desired?
