A really rewarding sexual encounter for me begins well before the sex does. My standard disclaimer is that I don’t claim to represent all men. Once I was out of town, Mrs. HDsocal (acting in a way I wish she would do again) started a few days before I was coming home, and started sending me cryptic but sexy messages, things like ‘im picking which stockings to wear when you come home’ , and ‘what should I do with a silk scarf…’, the visual image, and anticipation that this started became my focus for the next few days, really, sitting in a boring work meeting ad thinking of something else (thinking of her!!), when I brought it up on the phone, she kept playing the game, teasing and being suggestive.
I don’t know if she was aroused or full of desire or was just playing with me, but either way, by the time I got home I wanted to jump her, I think I had a hard on before my flight landed and had fidget to get comfortable on the drive home from the airport. She smiled when I saw her and knew that she wanted to ML. She was dressed in something sexy (always a turn on for me). This is one of the few times that I think she was aroused when I got home. We had a few drinks and… well……..
The sex that night was the best we ever had IMO, from a pleasure standpoint, emotional, the whole package. I have asked her what prompted it and she never did tell me or for that matter never did any thing quite like this again.
The physical enjoyment was better than any other time we ML. Could I have had sex withoutthe whole package that night, sure, but it wouldn't be anything like it was that night. Sex without any desire for me isn't that much more rewarding than masturbation.
