Quote: I have told her that anticipation, teasing, foreplay etc. would help me with having more fulfilling sex. I still wonder if she realizes that there are different levels of pleasure for a guy, just because he ejaculates doesn’t equate to great sex.
I'm sorry. I'm not really going to respond directly to your post. I was just curious about what specifically you were thinking about when you wrote the above. I've been thinking that there is still something I don't understand about the way men operate sexually ever since I read the article on male sexuality in "The Joy of Sex". I'm particularly interested in what you meant by anticipation or teasing because I know this is lacking in my relationship. I feel like the reason is my H's LD, but maybe there is some skill I am lacking.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
