LL -- you cracked me up with your comparison of my R with the BoSox. I do have to tell you that I met h during 1986 and knew little if anything about baseball...I was NOT the best gf during the trauma of the world series loss! I view 2004 as my opportunity to redeem myself!

Had a good night last night. I went to an acupunturist for the first time! It was weird but interesting...we'll see how it goes! Picked up food from the Thai place down the street and went home. h was very glad to see me and was very cute (he was also very sweet ealier during the day on the phone). We ate our dinner and watched the NLCS and talked. I talked a little bit about my appointment which was kind of a stretch for me...see, h doesn't believe in a lot of the stuff that I find very interesting (meditation, acupunture, mind/body connection, etc). I've had kind of a hard time with it because it truly is something I'm interested in and because I tend to personalize his responses to the topics. I've been feeling kind of down about not being able to share my thoughts and interests with him...so, last night, we talked a little bit about acupuncture and I didn't personalize his reaction at all! He was very pleasant about saying he didn't believe in it at all

Anyway...I have to get better about not being afraid to speak with him about things that interest me that he thinks are bunk and NOT overreacting to his reaction. It really helps when he offers his thoughts without adding a personalized spin on top of it and when I hear what he says without doing the same.

QT: baseball! h told me last night that he loves when I sit on the couch and read while he's watching TV. He also read me some stuff from his school.

AOS: I brought home dinner. h handled getting the setup and the cleanup.

WOA: ummm..not entirely sure here.

PT: good snuggling on the couch

GO SOX!!!!

Sage


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.