Shiny -- What a GREAT post Thanks so much for the "yes, I get it!" thoughts and also the kind words...I'm reading "The Lost Art of Listening" and really enjoying it...it's very readable and quite funny in parts...reinforces many of the thoughts in the other listening post.

I've been applying the "techniques" (aka "practicing") here at work and also at school. It's amazing to me to note how many times I rush through a conversation with someone...or spend many mind cycles trying to get MY thoughts out "first" or "soon". I've been enjoying the process of watching mindfully my conversations with others.



Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.