Thanks so much for your thoughts on this...you are SO right in pointing out how supportive h has been and ALSO how he is able to pursue his goals w/o worrying (I think!) that he is losing me in the process. I need to "live" with these positive thoughts and ingrain (?) them into my brain.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.