Ditto what Love2Win said. I have found that small AOS seem to mean more to H than a huge one. I am just doing small things like making phone calls for him, picking things up from the store, keeping the house tidy. I find that the more I do them the more natural they are coming to me. I am also trying to think of H and I as dating. When we were dating I would have went out of my way to do something for him and not given it a second thought. That changed when we got married. I think to myself why? I still love him so why shouldn't I still treat him like that. Every time I think that I become inspired to do more.
