Hello Sage.... wow, same horoscope for me and it gave me chills too.....
Been checking out your thread here and wanted to first congratulate you on your long journey and reconciling w/your H.
Seen you've been struggling w/AOS LL and wanted to point out some possibilities....although the ones you did the other day were large (in my opinion - housework, UGH) what about some smaller ones like picking up clothes from the cleaners, or stopping off to get something special for dinner before the game, or making him his favorite drink - coffee, mixed, etc..., or even getting the paper for him in the morning. I'm not an AOS person but from what I recall in the book, they don't have to be HUGE, just consistent and if you think of other things that your H does and you could do regularly for him, they would become more natural and consistent. I mean, you don't have to feed all of the LL but if that's at the top then I would focus a bit more. As for a HUGE one, is there something he has always wanted done (ie, clean the garage/attic/basement to make way for a "room of his own" or that he always wanted the car detailed)...whatever the case, maybe there's something you need to ponder and see if you can pull it off.
Good luck Sage, I've read your words on other posts and always been inspired. Hope you are able to let go of the past and move to the future so that you can enjoy what you've worked so hard for these past years (your M). Tootles........
