Let's see...how'd I do with my mission yesterday (to steal from MF!)
QT: Yup -- spent some time in the AM and then watched TV in the PM
AOS: scored 10 on this I think -- picked h up at the train -- I had gone to the supermarket before he got there and bought stuff for dinner --
WOA: Hmmm...I think I did ok but not sure how pointed I was. I find that I give him a lot of compliments but maybe direct appreciation for ACTION would be better
PT: some snuggling but still a bit gunshy about initiating...
********* Today??
QT: It's errand night so we'll have plenty of QT together (he should probably get the kudos for putting up with that!)
AOS: Ran the dishwasher this AM -- scored some points because we don't have a lot of time in the morning but I was very efficient!
WOA: not yet
PT: Hmmm...
Feeling good. had a great call with h when he got home from school. Was thinking more this AM about how grumpy and reserved I was last week -- very judgemental and woe is me -- I really think that contributed to the interaction this weekend.
I could have:
Made my needs more clear and/or
Done some things for myself (movie, nails, whatever)
I think either would have helped.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.