Let's see...how'd I do with my mission yesterday (to steal from MF!)

QT: Yup -- spent some time in the AM and then watched TV in the PM

AOS: scored 10 on this I think -- picked h up at the train -- I had gone to the supermarket before he got there and bought stuff for dinner --

WOA: Hmmm...I think I did ok but not sure how pointed I was. I find that I give him a lot of compliments but maybe direct appreciation for ACTION would be better

PT: some snuggling but still a bit gunshy about initiating...

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Today??

QT: It's errand night so we'll have plenty of QT together (he should probably get the kudos for putting up with that!)

AOS: Ran the dishwasher this AM -- scored some points because we don't have a lot of time in the morning but I was very efficient!

WOA: not yet

PT: Hmmm...

Feeling good. had a great call with h when he got home from school. Was thinking more this AM about how grumpy and reserved I was last week -- very judgemental and woe is me -- I really think that contributed to the interaction this weekend.

I could have:

Made my needs more clear and/or

Done some things for myself (movie, nails, whatever)

I think either would have helped.

Sage


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.