Hi Sage- I started lurking around over here to read about some people who were making progress after their H's MLC or A. Since you've offered such great advice over on the MLC BB, I wanted to check in on you.
Your post from the other day about the Hotmail really touched me. But then I was glad that you and H got to talk about it. Your list of things that your H fears is very helpful information to have. I am going to save it somewhere as I think that my H has the same fears but can't talk about them yet.
I also worry that even after we are talking and consider ourselves "reconciled" that there will be little things like that that get me off track or make me suspicious. I guess that it is only with time and eventually- communication- that we will get through this.
Keep up the good work! You are an inspiration for me.
