No honeymoon planned yet, hopefully around April. We could have done a wedding or nice honeymoon, but not both yet.

It's funny also...I'm a lot different than I was even less than a year ago. As much as I am really glad (obviously) with how everything turned out, I'd not hang in there so long again. Not that I'd ever get a divorce if I can fix a relationship - the last thing I want is another divorce. But I won't ever be part of a third party in a relationship - either it's me, or not.

If there is anything I wish I'd done - it's to have gotten my own life very, very quickly. I think that is very important. It took me over a year of evolving into a stronger person - and I'm trying to keep her. I am not as jealous of female friends of his - because if anything happens in the future, it would be his loss if our R ends.

Anyway, I love him a lot - I'm not a starry-eyed romantic, I think we've all been through too much to think like that anymore!