Just have to vent things here to get them off my chest.
Since my last post.......last week, my ex has been all over the place. He called me one day and I could tell something was wrong. I asked him if he had been crying. Without getting into the details of what he did, he tells me he needs my help, I need to take him to the ER, he tried to commit suicide. Now, I saw this coming...I'm not stupid. He called his mom to babysit here, and I went and got him and took him to the hospital. Now, the whole time, he was clutching my hand, huggy, rubbing my back and all that. I did not play into it. I was very angry at him for what he did, but as he requested, I sat there with him for 10 long hours.
Later on in the week, we had a blow out. I told him he was playing head games. A push/pull type of thing and I wasn't going to play anymore. I can't have a PMA if I am playing these games. I told him we were NOT going to be friends and hang out, it wasn't healthy and it wasn't normal. That we would have a friendly business relationship and nothing more. I also told him that if the bs continued, I was selling the house and moving. He told me he would respect my wishes and leave me alone, just please don't move. He has kept his word for the last three days.
So, tonight for the first time that I know of, he is out for the night. He isn't saying with who, just that he is out of the state. I figure he hooked up with the OW that he had an affair with, even though they broke up.
