CeMar, Just like you I long to be able to express my HDness freely with a like minded woman but even if we could bear to leave our children what is the chance of us finding our very own honeypot? Second marriages are less likely to succeed than first and there is no guarantee of finding an HDW - hairdog did not and he's a clever pup. A few years ago when I was in despair I looked hard for an HD woman. I went to various evening classes, the gym etc and came into contact with loads of women - mostly single/divorced. Over time, five of them showed an interest in me and I flirted with them and even had quite deep conversations about sex etc. Only one was obviously HD and well up for it and although I wanted to be with her and came close to leaving for her there was something about her general personality that made me uncomfortable. The fact is I LIKE my W. She is a lovely person. In the future I want to have grandchildren come to stay and all those lovely family things that make life worth living. I know that you are very much like me CeMar and I know that we will never get everything we need. Our Ws probably do know that they will never be woman enough for us as you say but what we have to do is give them the encouragement and opportunity to be woman enough for THEMSELVES. Perhaps then we will get more of what WE want. SD
