chocolateeyes:

I can see where what we are asking of our very LD wives would look to be impossible. I personally would like my wife to return to the way she was early in our marriage. But, honestly, that would probably take a miracle. Apparently, to find a soultion means that the HD must lower their needs to unbelieveable low levels, and even then, the LD must work like h#ll to meet those.

Think about it, the very LD women does not experience "Desire" at all. And then the HD comes along and says they must have "Desire" to save the marriage. That is darn near impossible, is it not?