I was playing nice, and then one person tells me to "grow some brass ones," and another says that my view "... will continue the adversarial relationship because Ms HD didn't say her point in just the right way or deal solely with your issues. She actually brought up some of her POV as well" and calls me the martyr.
You know, the smugness of this board just makes me scream sometimes. While "do you want to be right, or do you want to fix the problem?" is certain valid some (I'd even say most) of the time, it is not the ONLY thing that I want to hear, no matter what the point was I brought up.
I have a hurricane I need to prepare for... sorry for the thread hijack, HD -- good luck with the sitch.