You do not know what I have told my wife at those times, as I haven't shared a lot of it. As for Hairdog, he's shared just about all of it with us, it would seem, and his efforts seem to be getting nowhere with this same personality ("martyr") type.
I don't want to talk too much more about my sitch right here so as not to hijack his thread, but please don't assume that you know what I have -- or haven't -- told my wife.
