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Corri's and CE's views will continue the adversarial relationship because Ms HD didn't say her point in just the right way or deal solely with your issues. She actually brought up some of her POV as well.




I can deal with some of her POV.
I can even deal with all of her POV, so long as it's some of the time.

It's when she turns it into all her POV, all of the time, that I have a problem with it. Sometimes it needs to be okay to really be about me, and in my marriage, it never is.

Can't speak for Corri or HD, but HD's wife does sound almost exactly like mine in how she responds to an olive branch like the one he laid out for her.

Choc.