Anette: I'm pretty sure NOP meant distance Hairdog's ex-wife from Hairdog's new family and kids.

HD: seems like your email might have been received as a bit of a non seqitur by your wife, who probably didn't think she needed to be forgiven for anything. She claims to be relatively content in the M, which makes it your problem if you're not happy. In her eyes anyway. It seems hard sometimes to make our spouses HEAR us. Also, she keeps mentioning how she is having a hard time adapting to the new life and how you don't understand how hard it has been. Remind her that you would like to work WITH her to make it less difficult?

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