HD's honey wrote: --------------- I am sad, and concerned, that this is how you perceive the last year. While we have certainly had many fights during the last year, we have also had many instances of working together and being a loving family. Especially under the circumstances, and perhaps you still don’t fully appreciate how difficult adjusting to all the changes in my life has been for me, I think we’ve done pretty well. I wish you could remember the good times as well as you seem to remember the bad. I fear our marriage, no matter how good it is, will never be good enough for you, and neither will I. ---------------
Translation.
"I need you to acknowledge the sacrifice and contributions I have made for and to this marriage. I also need you to accept less sex than you want"
Hairy should let her know how much he appreciates her contribution to the marriage, exactly how and when he is going to create vast emotional and physical distance between his family and his ex-wife, and that he and current wife simply must discuss the problems with their relationship - which for Hairy is mostly about sex.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.