OK... I am now seeing why I am feeling LD these last few days... I am sick with a cold/cough. I am looking forward to getting back to myself, but I have learned something from this experience: by being less sexually focused/frustrated, H seems closer to me. This was happening before my cold declared itself. I went along with the way he likes to ML, and the next day he threw in stuff he knows I like. I think he felt less pressure from me and more acceptance, and this gave him more to give. I have to remember some of this when my HD-ness comes back.
IHJ--who wonders if HP and GM get LD when they're sick
