I agree with Honey, you are making great progress!
Instead of focusing on each act, try to take a big picture approach. You are still at practice. Practice is where you learn from your mistakes. Practice is where it is okay to explore your strengths and weaknesses. Maybe both of you could simply relax a bit and look at your lovemaking sessions as practice or just a fun event. If both of you can relax, then you can laugh at your trips and false starts. It will also make it a lot easier to get and maintain an emotional connection while you are playing.
You are at the toddler stage. Don't expect to be able to run the marathon. Learn to laugh at the boo-boos when they happen. There is much fun to be had in the journey!
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
