GGB wrote:
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So NOP, I feel myself wandering off the path again. Seems like W pushes the plow with me for a day or so, then loses interest and I'm left pushing it alone again. She's feeling pressured and making me feel awful about pushing myself. What to do
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You bring the plow and the rows to be hoed back to her attention. The fact is that the rows need to be plowed, or there will be no crop.

Don't lose site of two things.
1) There is work to be done.
2) The work requires two people to accomplish.

Don't expect that you won't grunt, swear, sweat, and smell bad along the way. Both of you will. The work has to be done regardless.

-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.