Quote: Sage, I had to respond to this....I'm not a Gemini, I'm a Libra, BUT OW is a Gemini! Yikes????? I can't help but wonder if H's "how'd you know then" response was to the realization that he's spilled more beans than he needed to!
Oh, jeez...don't read TOO much into it! I think Cainer's "advice" is interesting even w/o the astrology part...for better or worse, one of the best DB strategies I learned was that "doing nothing" for a period of time was a reasonable and valuable option...I was such a DOER pre-bomb that it was almost impossible for me to fathom how NOT reacting could be powerful...but it sure can be.
I'm not excusing your h AT ALL and I hate the fact that your S get mired in the middle of this crap but TBH, as I said yesterday, I wouldn't backtrack completely because you think h disclosed all that stuff because he thought he was "caught". His email to you is chock full of info that he didn't have to disclose...
Sage
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I think Cainer's "advice" is interesting even w/o the astrology part...for better or worse, one of the best DB strategies I learned was that "doing nothing" for a period of time was a reasonable and valuable option...I was such a DOER pre-bomb that it was almost impossible for me to fathom how NOT reacting could be powerful...but it sure can be.
