I woke up this am with this terrible feeling of spiritual heaviness, like all was not well with the universe. I was not really sure what that was all about but I do believe (without sounding whacked out) that on some level I must have felt your distress in addition to my own.
I can barely see straight, so I am not sure if I can comment or offer any good advice, I wish that I could just call you on the phone and talk this through.
My H said some of the same stuff to me over our dinner last night and repeated your H's control comments almost verbatim plus the part about my changes not not being genuine, plus he also threw in some stuff about me thinking that I was better than everyone else, esp OW. And added in some "things are never going to change."
