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Ah honey, I know this sucks. But it doesn't help, and I mean really doesn't help, that they're still working together. (And he should have known better than to think it was okay for him to talk to her! Yeesh...)

I know, right now, he's not considering your feelings. Or anyone else's (besides OW), and I'm sorry. It does sound to me like you are getting a bunch of typical MLC/EA/A garbage, and it sucks. (I don't know how you managed to keep quiet and not demand he quit talking to her...I think I would have lost my cool! )

My practical advice? I agree with sage. She's right on about your H sharing now, and that's such a good thing. I agree, you should give him sort of response about "thank you for sharing" or something like that.

I also think there's a lot of good info in that message. Maybe not anything that you should directly respond to him about...but it gives you the key to why OW keeps creeping back in. She stroked his ego. She built him up.

Maybe it's time to fight fire with fire??

My suggestion would be to really surprise him when he gets home. And I mean in a good way. He's expecting you to give him the third degree when he gets home. Why not send your kid off, cook a nice steak dinner, and then tell him you're sorry he's had such a hard time at work? (If I recall, the whole steak dinner thing worked well in the past. )

And make sure you take some "you" time.

Here's some hugs to help you feel better.

[color:"purple"]Nevanna[/color]