Thanks Dawn and Nevanna and Moving Forward...I havent had much time to post today, so busy at work...Nevanna I did see you're having a tough time...hang in sweetie, I really think, having been there and done that more times than I can count, that it is a part of the healing process, the anxiety that comes flooding back when things are looking up. and it just bowls you over.
Moving Forward, I've been reading on your thread, and yes, it all sounds so familiar....I will try to post for you soon. Am I right that you and your H and OW are all co-workers? If so, been there and doing that....and it stinks!
Dawn...bannanas and apples again! You go Woman! yes, you're right, I need to focus on what I have, and Saturdays evening in front of the fireplace was H's doing, all I did was grab the 6-pack at the store... I just know he used to right love letters to the OW, and it frosts my cookies so to speak. Where's mine? I know I sound like a 2 year old!
I'm also kind of stuggling this afternoon, because I maintain our in-house training records, and just got the documentation for one that was done this morning that I didn 't monitor....H and OW were both at that one....just bugs the heck out of me to have him in the same room with her with only 20 other people present........urp! I wish one of them would get another job. I did get an email from him that he had a good performance review and will get his raise...I know that's been weighing on his mind. Maybe his performance will improve in other areas now, you suppose? naughty me for thinking such a thing, guess I'm just kind of grumpy today.