Thanks Sage, I read some of these posts on your thread earlier....It helps to know you've experienced some of the same feelings and anxieties, helps a lot, because I've always looked at you as one of those folks who really has this DBing stuff figured out! It even helps to know that asking for reassurance doesnt work very well in your sitch. I'm going to focus on your and other's suggestions to look for the actions that indicate that he's doing "the right thing" and renew some efforts to take care of me. I gotta maintain that focus to get through this ride!


been around awhile!