Something that popped into my head a few days ago. H and I were in bed and once again the thoughts came. Was it really just a ONS? Is it true he hasn't seen her since then? Is it true that she has called a few times and he has never once called her. I felt the questions on the tip of my tongue and almost woke him up to ask him and then I stopped myself. What would it accomplish? He has already answered these questions. Is it going to make me feel any better to repeat it or am I just going to question it again a few days from now? I know what I am looking for - absolute proof that he is not lying. I am never going to get it. I decided not to ask again. I decided to focus on his actions. His actions are not of a man who is cheating. His actions are of a man who is trying to set things right. No he doesn't always do the right thing but he is trying.
I have been following your sitch and your H seems to be trying just as my h is.
