Thanks MF, this does help. Somehow in my anxiety it hadnt occured to me that it could be his anger and fear that he's reacting to. I wish he could just say that to me! If this is what's happening, then any mention of it is a BIG cheeseless tunnel. But NEVER talking about it doesnt seem an option that will help me to heal.

Is Sage's post in her latest thread???? what is your thread?


been around awhile!