Lat night at S's religion class, I got there early for pick up and took a book in to read as I waited....this is a large room, actually a gym partitioned in half, and has some school lunch tables in it. I sat at one in the middle of the room and read ( Passionate marriage, by the way)...when the kids first began coming out, I noticed a child stopped in front of me....I glanced up, didnt immediately know who it was, but it was OW's D....the poor kid gasped like she had seen a ghost and opened and closed her mouth like a fish gulping for air....I blinked and she quickly went to her mother, who put her arm around her.
I thought this was the oddest thing...at first I thought it was an accident, but then I came to think the child was wanting to say something to me, I don't have a clue what, a confrontation?????? The poor kid, to be so drug in to her mom's crap.... I can not imagine what OW must have told her about me. I've never said an unkind word about the child to anyone, or even thought it. I guess if she ever does say anything, all I can do is validate with something like "I can see how it must seem that way" or "it must be hard"....
Of course then the devil on my shoulder brings to mind the fact that I COULD always make copies of the ugly come-on letters her mom wrote to my H and give them to her....
Weird stuff still.....I feel so sorry for that child, she is such a lost girl....her dad and his new wife don't want anything to do with her (as reported by H from what OW told him of course)........
