I love the replies you have gotten to your last post. Lots of good support! I especially love what Pam had to say. I think she's talking to you about faith. You've got to have it Deb....have faith. Faith in YOURSELF. You are doing the right thing. You are on the right path. Just keep your head high and keep going.
Yes, you have seen the ugly side of marriage but instead of letting it destroy you, make you bitter, you have been strengthen by this event. And hopfully, with time your marriage will be strengthen too. Time is the key.
Try to remember Deb that your reactions today will have an effect on tomorrow. We have all learned that through DB, right? I guess that you could think of your marriage like a garden...each positive response is a flower....each negative response a weed.
Every time you feel that overwhelming doubt and fear do something good for yourself........Plant a flower!
