Quote: finally finished up my list of 110 things I adore about him, laminated it, put it in an envelope and stuck it in his mailbox before I left for the evening (OW saw me put it there, I'm surprised he got it!)........He emailed me that he loved it and appreciated it, that it was creative and original,
Oho - I'm gonna steal this idea - maybe something for NG's birthday which comes up mid Nov - what a super thought
Quote: although a list of 100 things she loved to do with him had been done before. I emailed him back that it irritated me to know she beat me to my ideas...he emailed back that he was sorry, he was just teasing, and he truely did treasure it. This morning he told me it was a year ago this past July that she gave him that, when things were really "hot" (before I even knew about the A). It's a tremendous relief to me when he discloses these tidbits, and I find they come more easily now. I have to believe that means he a)hurts less from the breakup and b)feels more comfortable talking to me.
Deb - sharing these little bits with you is truly a gift - you are so right, it does mean he is more comfortable. Well done, you
Now, have you heard from BnB lately? I hope she is OK. Slowly
